They say
"people can change..."

but they also say
"you can't be someone who you're not..."

So how does it work? How can you try and change yourself but knowing that that's who you are and therefore you can't become someone who you're not?! I'm confused.

I critically reflected upon myself tonight and realised there are things I want to change about myself. But I have been like this for the past 21 years. Is it just who I am? Or can I change it?

When you have a problem with someone, its not them who's the problem, its you. You can only control yourself, the things you do and say and the outcomes that follow. If you don't like something, then change it. If you can't change it then change the way you think about it. Everything has two sides to it. It's up to you to choose the brighter side.

my thoughts @ 1:31 AM

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